How to Dress When You’re Between Sizes
Gurls, let’s talk about something many of us experience but don’t always discuss—those times when our bodies are in transition. Whether it’s due to menopause, a few extra pounds (hello, chocolate cake!), or simply life’s natural changes, dressing when you’re in between sizes can be tricky. I’m sharing my favorite tips and tricks to help you look fabulous, feel confident, and embrace this phase with grace.
How to Dress When You’re Between Sizes
1. Forget About the Size on the Tag
Seriously, gurls, don’t let a number on a label ruin your day. Clothes are meant to fit YOU, not the other way around. Every brand sizes differently, so don’t hesitate to grab a different size if it fits better.
If something doesn’t fit quite right, but you love it, take it to a tailor. A little nip here or tuck there can make all the difference. Trust me, it’s worth it for those pieces you adore!
2. Stretchy Fabrics Are Your Best Friend
When your size is fluctuating, stretchy fabrics can be a lifesaver. Look for materials with a bit of spandex or elastane—they’ll move with you and feel much comfier.
3. Master the Art of Layering
Layers can do wonders, gurls! They add style, provide coverage, and make it easy to adjust to fluctuating sizes. Start with a fitted tank or tee as your base, then add a structured jacket or flowy cardigan.
4. Say Yes to Adjustable Waistbands
Oh, the joy of adjustable waistbands! Whether it’s pants, skirts, or shorts, having a little flexibility in the waist can make all the difference. You can find some of my favorite Elastic Pants/Pull on Pants for Women Over 50 here.
5. Don’t Skimp on Shapewear
Gurls, shapewear is like a secret weapon. It’s not about squeezing into something uncomfortable; it’s about creating a smooth foundation. The right shapewear can make you feel like a million bucks. High-waisted briefs for tummy control, bodysuits that smooth everything out, and lightweight slip shorts under dresses are all great options. I share tons of high-rated, affordable options here.
6. Accessorize Like a Pro
Accessories can save the day! When you’re feeling unsure about your outfit, add a pop of personality with jewelry, scarves, or a fabulous handbag.
Shopping for accessories? You’re in the right place! Check out these posts:
7. Stay True to Your Style
Just because your body is changing doesn’t mean your style has to. Find ways to adapt your favorite looks to work for you right now. If you need more help with establishing your own style, check out 5 Style Resolutions for Women Over 50 in 2025 and 10 Fashion Mistakes That Cost You Money Over 50.
8. Embrace the Journey
Gurls, our bodies are always changing, and that’s okay! Instead of stressing over the scale or the size tag, focus on dressing for the woman you are today. You deserve to feel fabulous, no matter where you are on your journey.
How to Shop Smart When In-Between Sizes
Start by focusing on versatile, affordable pieces that can work for multiple outfits. For example, wrap dresses, stretchy pants, and flowy blouses are great investments because they adjust easily to body changes. Another option is to explore clothing rental services like Rent the Runway or Nuuly. These allow you to try stylish pieces without committing to buying items you may outgrow quickly.
I think many of us have experienced being in between sizes (probably more than once!). If you have any additional tips for dressing during this in-between stage, feel free to share them in the comments!
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I love your navy blue poncho (that is out of stock unfortunately) – just completes the outfit and so pretty!
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I absolutely loved your blog today, love all the fashion and jewelry items you showed. Interested in at least 3 of them. Thank you for the work and time you put in for all of us!!
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you look so good in those skirt sets. Are they as cozy as they look?
I’d like to try something other than jeans/pants & a sweater but here in New England it is soooo cold sometimes I ‘d be happy in sweat pants all day…Not my greatest look.
They are very cozy, and I love that you can wear them separately with other items.
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Welcome back!!! Why am I hearing the Kotter theme song now? Lol!
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I really like the side slit navy tank.
Also the suede leather car coat is lovely.
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I have to admit I do pay too much attention to the size. It should be a guide but I have refused to buy something because I won’t own something that size. I find that the sizes vary more then ever. I can wear a small-large and that’s ridiculous.
I have things in a small all the way to an XL. It is about fit, not about the size.
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Found it! Your advice about being between sizes is spot on. I’ve also found that women’s clothing sizes are so different. In some brands a large is great for me,in others and XL is needed. Frustrating!especially if ordering online. I wish womens were standardized like men’s sizing!
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Is the navy top available? The tank and pants are from Chicos but I can’t find the top.
Carol
Carol, it has already sold out, but this velvet one is similar and beautiful. https://bit.ly/4aG6iOq
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Please provide a link to the lacey navy tunic you have over the Chico’s side slit tank. Thank you!
It is already sold out. This one in velvet is similar, and stunning! https://bit.ly/4aG6iOq
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Ignore the size tag and also try on at different times of the day or week.
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Thanks for the tips. Great advice.
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Great tips for finding clothes that fit and are flattering.
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I’m always between sizes it seems. Thanks for all the good tips.
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This is fun. And love the between sizes hints. I think I have ALWAYS been between. Heh.
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This was a great post as I’m one of those in between sizes girls. Also love this new game!
I hope I’m between sizes soon. I started a low-carb diet yesterday and am really enjoying it. Thanks for the inspiration with your carnivore diet. I shop shoes when I’m dieting, and use them as a reward for every 5 pounds. It’s quite an incentive!
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these are good suggestions. it is just a number on a tag. thank you for that
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Lol! It is a sense of accomplishment!
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I love that JJill is sharing your posts – this is the second or third time that I’ve seen them share one of your images. Hopefully it will bring a few new people to your page and blog.
I hope so!
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So many good suggestions. I’ve been wearing stretchy pants with elastic waists for awhile. I used to have a waist, not so much anymore! you are wise to remind everyone to ignore the size. squeezing into an ill fitting garment – just because you like the size -makes you look bigger.
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I love the first outfit the best – tan and white and those beautiful hydrangeas. I didn’t see a link to the lacy navy top over the shell.
It was already sold out, but this black velvet one is similar, and it is stunnng. https://bit.ly/4aG6iOq
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Found it! I’ve finally learned to try different sizes if my usual size doesn’t look quite right. It’s frequently merchandise sizing issues. Thanks for reinforcing to choose fit over the number on the tag.
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That suede bag and jacket are so great, love them! Makes me wish we had cooler weather down here in South Florida.
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Love your blogs, I read them daily!
Thanks for all the info and great ideas!
I FOUND IT. IT TOOK ME AWHILE BUT FINALLY FOUND IT. Stretch fabrics have always been my friend. lol. especially elastic waists.
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Reading your posts is part of my morning routine. I enjoy all of it!
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Wearing knitwear vs woven fabrics. Knitwear has some natural give to it, so it works +/- a couple pounds. Woven fabrics are stiff and unforgiving. Also, wear your favorite, most flattering colors, especially near your face, which can make you feel more uplifted. And of course, when all else fails, cute shoes!!!
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Found it! I agree about a really great tailor altering clothes that don’t otherwise fit. I’ve had a few tops and pants altered over the years and what a wonderful difference that has made in fit!
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Love this post about in between sizes ~ especially after the holidays!!
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Found it!! Boy do sizes run different in almost every brand. Try on and forget what the size says, if it fits wear it!1
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Found it. Very helpful post, Tania. I feel as 50+ women, we can all identify. So true about clothing sizes….Have a great day 😊
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Found it!!!! Also looking for a med to dark brown belt! Suggestions?
There are lots of styles out there. What material, how wide, etc.?
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Thank you for the reminder that clothes are to fit us NOT the other way.
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Great post about in between sizes.
Haha! I can’t make it too easy…where is the fun in that?!?
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You hit the nail on the head today! I’m in weight-loss mode and use many of your tips. I’m feeling more like trying new eye shadow than clothes right now; want to wait until I settle down a bit more into the next size down before I buy more smaller clothes. Been focusing on shoes and bags instead.
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Found it!! Another great post!! Sunday’s post was just what I needed! Thanks for blessing me daily!!
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Found it! Good post! It’s hard to not get caught up in the size number. It took me awhile to accept this and go a little bigger when I need to because of the style or cut.
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Found it! I got so interested in your helpful hints that I forgot to look for the smiley face – I did go back and look!😂
That’s even better!
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Found it! Thank you for the timely link to shapewear! I have a wedding coming up and need to address this!
We all have those moments when we need a little help with looking smooth.
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I just feel “bigger” when I layer on clothing. You look great when you do it.
Maybe your underlayers need to be thinner and not as bulky. That might help.
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I am a young 60 and love your posts I follow you and read everyday- I have many of the outfits you feature thanks to you.
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Great advice in todays post.
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Found it! Love the traveler’s outfit from Chico’s. Beautiful.
Another pant to try is from J Jill. It is the Wearever Smooth Fit Knit jeans. These are the best!
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Besides loving your daily fashion tips and Sunday devotions, now I have a game to play!
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