How many of you struggle with looking your best in clothing? There are tricks that I use to help hide my problem areas, and I want to share those with you. It doesn’t matter if you like to wear a dress, these tips will work for a sweater or a top.
So, part of my normal activities is to get dressed, take photos, and then share those with all of you. Yesterday, I had an idea of taking this sweater dress and showing you how to style it in a couple of different ways. When I mentioned this idea to my sister, she wanted to know how to look her best while wearing the dress.
She is built differently from me, as I am sure that a lot of you are. So, what looks good on me might be a challenge for you. I am 5’6″ tall, so I am several inches taller than my sister. My sister is way more busty than I am, which is not an issue for me when it comes to styling items. I am built like a ruler, while my sister is more the apple body shape. However, I hope to help you see how you can look your best in this dress, no matter your shape.
I will show you all of the different ways that I styled this dress, and I will also tell you some other ideas that will work, even if I didn’t style them in a photo.
When it comes to fashion, you have to do a lot of trial and error to see how to look your best. Don’t be afraid to experiment, and don’t get discouraged if your experiment doesn’t look like you had envisioned.
There are hundreds of looks that I try but never show to you. Mistakes and failures are part of the process, embrace them and learn from them. Expand your wardrobe by expanding your mindset. Try new things, and don’t be afraid of what others think.
I love this red sweater dress, and I can see myself wearing this look for Valentine’s Day! I love a cable-knit design sweater for the winter. The design is classic, it is beautiful, and it will never go out of style. This dress is not tight, and I don’t think that it shows your lumps. However, it does hug your body, so I actually think it would look good on someone larger chested than me. Showing off your chest without showing your cleavage is classy, and this dress will show off your chest to its best advantage. However, if you are concerned that your rolls might show, then I would suggest some shapewear. You can’t go wrong with SPANX, and if it gives you more confidence, then I say, “go for it.”
I am wearing a size medium in this dress, and I love the way that it fits. The fact that it is on sale for 70% off is also something that I love. This dress is normally around $120.00, but it can be yours for $35.66 right now!
Reminder to self…don’t stand with your hip all jutted out. LOL! I wanted to show you the back of the dress to see that the cable-knit pattern extended to the back.
You’ve heard me say over and over again that accessories can change an outfit. I love adding a scarf to my outfits for several reasons. Scarves are relatively inexpensive, you can use the colors and patterns in a scarf to tie an outfit together, and they can hide problem areas. This animal print oblong blanket scarf is stunning. It immediately draws your attention and makes you look up at my face instead of my stomach region, which is my problem area. It also extends over my tummy to help hide that area even more. So, I think adding this scarf, or any scarf, to this sweater dress helps me look my best. Here are some others that I think would look great with this dress, or any other item you have that is red.
I have white, winter looking legs, so wearing tights or knee boots is my go-to look with a dress. I love seeing others wearing booties with dresses, but I would have to lather up with self-tanner, which is way too much trouble. A tall boot looks just as good, and I think it is flattering and modern looking, so I mainly choose. These neutral boots are last year’s model, so they aren’t currently available online. However, a few other boots are similar that I will link to so that you can still achieve the same look.
My number one tip for people like me who don’t have a defined waist; add a cardigan or a jacket. You know that I am always trying to look my best, and you will notice that I wear a lot of cardigans, blazers, coats, and jackets. When you wear one of those items, it confuses the eye as to where your side ends. So many of you ask me if I am losing weight, and the answer is NO. I am trying, but I have not lost weight. However, if you can’t see the sides of my body, your eye will be drawn into the middle, which helps me appear thinner.
This camel colored cardigan is very soft, has gorgeous tortoiseshell print buttons, and has a relaxed fit that makes you want to grab this sweater over and over again. I am wearing a medium in this sweater, and it is plenty roomy and even a little on the large side. This cardigan is what I would call a grandfather cardigan or one that is a casual style. I can see wearing this cardigan with jeans and booties, and it will look adorable.
I like adding long cardigans to a dress since I think it looks polished and put-together. This honeycomb stitched cardigan is gorgeous and soft, but it is too big for me. I have the lapel turned back to make a collar and try to take up some extra material, but even the sleeves are too long. So, sadly, this cardigan will be going back. I am wearing a medium, and I recommend sizing down for this sweater. The sweater is beautiful and will go with many things, but be sure to make allowance for the oversized look before you place an order.
Who owns a denim jacket? If you did not raise your hand, then we are going to change that status today. A good denim jacket is one that you will wear for years. It is a classic, and it can be worn with almost anything, including maxi dresses and evening gowns. The jacket is an acceptable “neutral” that can be added for style or to keep you warm.
I added my jacket today for a casual look, plus I like how the blues played off the red sweater dress. This jacket also helps to create that waistline that I mentioned earlier, so it is always in rotation in my closet. I am wearing a jacket from Talbots, and they have several on sale that I will link to. The one that I am wearing is a medium which fits nicely for most of the time. However, it is a tad snug with this dress since it is a thicker material.
This isn’t my favorite look, but I still wanted to include the photo so that you can see my thought process. I wanted this to look like a skirt, and sweater, and a turtleneck. The oatmeal sweater achieves the look, but it isn’t a home run, so I would probably keep playing around to see if I could find something that I liked better. You can add a belt to the look, and that changes up things. I don’t add a belt too often because that is my thickest area. If I wear a belt, then I will usually also add a cardigan to hide the sides. I might also try adding a button-up shirt to the look and see if I liked the look like a jacket, or tie it at the waistline.
Did you like today’s post? Then, I want you to promise to experiment, experiment, experiment. Don’t rely on wearing something in the same old way over and over again. Try different items and see which ones help you to look your best. Don’t shy away from sweater dresses; they can be very flattering if you learn how to style them to fit your body type.
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