A SUMMER OUTFIT WITH A LEOPARD CAMISOLE
I am going to channel Rodney Dangerfield today, “take my husband…please.” Lol! He has been a real pain in the rear, if you know what I mean. Lol! I messaged him yesterday while I was getting my hair cut and colored. (You’ll have to wait to see that unless you are on Instagram, and it is on my stories) He gave me a very short, somewhat smart alec, remark. I might have responded back in the same manner. Isn’t that what happens; we are like mirrors. Instead of taking the high road, I jumped right in with both feet.
When I got home, he was here with one of his friends. They came inside for some lunch, and his snarky attitude continued. Finally, his friend looked at me and said, “how do you put up with him?” Even Joe had to laugh at that because he knew that he was not being nice. I said, “if I only had a $1.00 for every time that I have been asked that.” The friend said, “I guess that you would be a millionaire.” I saw Joe look up to see what my answer was going to be, so I said, “I’d have two whole dollars.” You could see the difference come over his face, even though nothing else was said. It is so easy to diffuse a situation, why don’t we do it more often???
This muted leopard print camisole is one that I bought back in early spring. I found this at Target, along with a huge haul of other clothing. Unfortunately, this top has already sold out, and I can see why. I wore this top back in April (see here) and even though the colors are the same in the outfit, the result is completely different. Today’s look has the dark gray jacket anchoring the look, and the look back in April had the focus on the lower half. Look at the two posts, and let me know if you can see what I mean. One look might work for some, while the other look would work for others. It is all about finding out what works best for you and your body shape. Here are a few leopard camisoles that you might like.
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I love that you share about real life on your blog! I have so been there with my husband too. Life is all about choices. Sometimes I have a hard time taking high road, but your example is a great reminder to me how much better it is to take the high road.
I looked at April post and once again am reminded of your amazing talent to take a shirt and give it a whole new look! Love that you included both in today’s post.
Tania, I love your blog!! I look forward to reading it every morning. You help me to start the day with a smile! I love your style. You inspire me to create outfits with what I have in my closet and give me courage to try new things. Thank you so much!!
Sometimes the longer we are married, the easier it is to fall into the trap of being “short” with each other. This is something that I have to work on also and I have been married for 45 years. My husband is the best but even sometimes he gets on my nerves!! Thanks for the reminder that instead of mirroring comments, we should take the high road. Many times it is not the message but the tone of the message and it goes both ways!! Also many times it is just the mood that we are in as to how we receive the message!! Have a great day!! I LOVE your blog and look forward to it each day!!
I agree, Meredith. Would I have reacted the same way when we first started dating? NOPE! It is easy, as you said, to fall into that trap of being short with each other.
Ahhh, husbands. Can’t live with them , can’t live without them.
TRUTH!!!
Man, I wish I could handle a ‘situation’ like you did but I’m one of those…jump in with both feet!! ARG!! I promise to work on that! Lol Love your look BOTH ways….last April and now. I give you an A+ on todays ootd. I love finding new ways to recreate a look with what I already own! You always give us excellent ways to do that.
Sondra, I don’t “always” handle the situation like that. Lol But, it was amazing how sweet he was for the rest of the night.
I’m on Instagram and see you there but email is still the first place I check for you each day. Smart move taking the high road with Joe. These things can easily spiral out of control if we don’t.
There are times when the high road sure fills like an uphill battle. Lol!
Love the new hair!!
Thanks, Robin. It was not as much of a change as I originally wanted, but I didn’t want to give Joe too much of a shock. Lol!
Oh I am heading to IG now! I am very curious!
IG is where everything is moving, Nancy.
From a natural redhead, I think you would look fabulous as a redhead! Saw instagram could see a slight bit if change. I say go for it! ❤
Pamela, I am heading toward red. But, I am going to do it over the course of a few months, instead of all at once.
I love how you handled that! Wise advice. You are a very good, funny writer in general. I really enjoy your blog even though our coloring is so different & I could never wear most of the colors you look good in.
Trace, thanks for your comment. I am not much of a writer, my sister is the writer of the family. But, I enjoy sharing my life with all of you. Also, you can take ideas from my looks, and make them your own. Pick the colors that work best for you.