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SHOULD A WOMAN OVER 40 WEAR RUFFLES

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Fashion Blogger 50 Is Not Old is wearing a sleeveless blue top with a ruffled neckline with beige ankle pants and studded sandals from Steven Madden

Do you remember when I had the giveaway for a pair of Lilly Pulitzer sunglasses? Here is the post for that giveaway which had a gorgeous blazer featured. I love those sunglasses, and I first got that pair myself back in the spring of 2019. My Energizer Bunny Friend had an incentive to earn these glasses, and I of course had to have them. If you know me at all, then you know that I love incentives and challenges. I call them dangling carrots since that is how you get a horse or mule to walk. Did I just call myself a mule???

Fashion Blogger 50 Is Not Old is wearing a sleeveless blue top with a ruffled neckline with beige ankle pants and studded sandals

Joe calls items like these, “trinkets,” and he laughs at how hard I will work to earn these trinkets. He forgets that two of those trinkets that I earned were trips to Cancun and to Los Cabos! Anyway, I earned the sunglasses and fell in love with them. I wore them everywhere I went until I lost them. I search everywhere for the glasses, and I asked everyone that I knew if they had seen them. I finally gave up looking for them and figured that I had lost them for good.

Fashion Blogger 50 Is Not Old is wearing the Lucia sunglasses from Lilly PulitzerOn Monday, I got a text from my daughter-in-law told me that she had a pair of Lilly sunglasses that must be mine. I went over to the house, and sure enough, they were the glasses that I had lost over a year ago. Joe’s mother passed away several years ago, but he had just recently decided to rent her house. We had done a lot of work on the house over the past couple of years, so I was in and out of the house quite often. The people who moved into the house about 4 months ago gave my DIL the sunglasses and told her that she had found them when she first moved in. I must have worn them over to the house and put them down once I was inside. I was so tickled to see them again, and you can bet that I’ll be more careful where I put them down from now on!!!

Fashion Blogger 50 Is Not Old is wearing a sleeveless blue top and gold jewelry from Kendra Scott

What is up with me loving ruffles?!? I have NEVER been a fan of ruffles. It didn’t matter if the ruffles were big or small, I hated them all. But, a switch seems to have flipped, and I am finding myself ordering top after top with ruffles. I still prefer the smaller style of ruffle, but I find myself occasionally looking at an over-the-top ruffled blouse. This cute 100% polyester top is from Ann Taylor Factory, and it can easily be dressed up or down. I can wear this sleeveless top under a blazer or cardigan for a dressy look, or wear it with jeans or capris for a casual style. I love versatility when it comes to my clothing. I am wearing a medium and it fits me perfectly! HERE is the link to the blouse.

Fashion Blogger 50 Is Not Old is wearing a sleeveless blue top with a ruffled neckline and gold jewelry from Kendra Scott

The AVI hoop earrings (HERE) are a pair that I loved so much that I got them in silver and in gold. They are large, but not as heavy as they look. The Reid long necklace (HERE) with the Ivory Mother of Pearl Pendant and the Rue long necklace (HERE) makes quite a statement. Gold looks great against the dark blue, but silver looks good against blue also. I also added the Fallyn cuff bracelet (HERE) and the Maggie bangle bracelet (HERE) for a little arm candy.

Fashion Blogger 50 Is Not Old is wearing beige ankle pants and studded sandals from Steven Madden

Remember me telling you about me taking photos with my pants on backward? That would be these pants!!! Can you tell that they are on wrong? Well, I couldn’t either until I saw that the pockets in the front and back were a little different. These are the So Slimming Brigitte Button-Hem Ankle Pants from Chicos. I am wearing a sand color, but I also own this pant in navy and black. I like that they are a pull-on style and that they fit so nicely. With Chicos, I have found that I need to size down in pants, especially if they are stretchy like these. I usually wear a size 10, which is a size 1.5 in Chico sizes. But, when the pants are stretchy, I wear a size .05 which is a size 6. While I appreciate the ego boost, I know that I am still a size 10 in real life. Lol!!! HERE is the link to the pants.

Fashion Blogger 50 Is Not Old is wearing studded sandals from Steven Madden

These gladiator-style sandals have been the “IT” style of the year. The spikes sure give these sandals a modern edge, and the neutral color makes them easy to wear with anything. I wasn’t sure that I would wear spikes, but I am adjusting to them nicely. How many of you have seen the Valentino shoes with spikes? Those things are FANCY!!! HERE is the link to the sandals, and I am wearing my usual size 9 in them.


Fashion Blogger 50 Is Not Old is wearing a sleeveless blue top with a ruffled neckline with beige ankle pants and sandals from Steven Madden

I am going to apologize right now. I’ve been shopping at Kendra Scott again, and for those of you who are loving your KS items, get ready to get some more. Lol! I just got these three items, and they are gorgeous!!!




Fashion Blogger 50 Is Not Old is wearing a sleeveless blue top with a ruffled neckline with ankle pants and studded sandals from Steven Madden

 

Fashion Blogger 50 Is Not Old is wearing a blue top with a ruffled neckline with beige ankle pants and studded sandals from Steven Madden

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28 Comments

  1. Diana Vollert says:

    I really like your outfit and your new KS jewelry. He question I have is should a 69 yr old woman wear ruffles?

  2. I loved the ruffles so much, that I just bought 2 shirts with ruffles, and 2 sweaters to go with them. I usually don’t buy from Ann Taylor, but the cost was something I couldn’t say no to!! 😉 Thanks for the “tip”!!

  3. I love your pants, Tanya! They would fit me perfectly,…I’m an apple shape with really thin legs and a chest of 38G!

  4. Lisa Massey says:

    I wish I had just half of your creativity and style. Yes, I can put outfits together by coping a picture but you really have a knack. Even to your hairstyle. Just great !
    I need staple ideas please just to start.

    Thanks !

    Lisa

  5. I love ruffles at our age! They can be subtle or over the top but so much fun!

  6. I love the shirt and outfit. I like a little ruffles, not the big ones, they make pretty subtle statement.

  7. I decided a long time ago to wear whatever I liked and leave elegance to the old ladies. I’m only 77 and when I get old I may dress in a more refined way.
    I like those shoes….a lot. The blouse is cute but sleeveless yadayadayada. ?

  8. This outfit looks great on you. I don’t wear ruffles. I have a larger bust, so I try to downplay that part of my body. I tend to wear v-neck or scoop neck.
    No one should have “rules” of what someone can and cannot wear (as long as the clothes are tasteful.) Everyone should wear what feels good and accentuates our best parts. Enjoy! Life is too short to follow arbitrary rules.
    Have a great weekend!

  9. I love navy and tan together, it is a classic combination. I love the ruffles. I think it makes it just a touch dressier, but still casual. 🙂

  10. Personally I’m 68 and I love the smaller ruffles. I think they give you a softer more feminine look. Since I’m petite I stick to the smaller ruffle. I would wear the whole outfit top to bottom.

  11. Susan Simmons says:

    I found a one shoulder, huge RUFFLED bathing suit on Amazon (sketchy, but it fits perfectly)! My husband said it was the cutest bathing suit I’ve ever had (married 33 years)! I am taking your advice…where what makes you feel good.

  12. Yet another outfit of your’s that I love!! The buttons at the bottom of the pants are soooo cute!! I am also not a fan of ruffles but love this top and would definitely wear it. I really like the new KS pieces you purchased. Very pretty!!!

  13. You mentioned yesterday that you have been using a grey hair shampoo. Could you share what kind you use? Thanks!

    1. I had used one that was a present that my hairdresser/DIL gave me for Christmas by Pureology. But, I recently got one from a brand new hair product that is especially for women over 45. It is sold at Target, and is by Proctor Gamble.

      https://rstyle.me/+sQbRCYPjUuviY5IDaqh73g

      1. Thank you! Hope you have a good weekend.

  14. Elizabeth Higginbotham says:

    I’m the same with ruffles. Used to hate them, but now I think they’re so cute!

    1. I am not a “girlie-girl” but I am loving ruffles. Who knew?

  15. I think any woman at ANY age should wear what they like. I would say that in this day and age, everyone pretty much wears what they want to and women need to stop judging other women and telling us what we should and shouldn’t be wearing! Love the top and so glad you found your sunglasses!!

    1. Haha! I am so glad that I found them too! I had given up on ever finding them, and had decided to order me another pair.

  16. you look lovely Tania, have a great weekend. ( I have those sandals but in a pump ) love them!

    1. I would love them in a pump!

  17. Karen Miller says:

    I love everything about your outfit! The color combo is one of my favorites, the sandals are super cute, and the ruffles are very feminine!

    1. I thought it was a nice play on feminine and edgy.

  18. A woman over 40, or over 50, or over 60, etc., should wear what makes her feel great. You look great in this.

    1. Thanks, Michele! We are too advanced to let someone else’s opinion stop us from wearing what we like.

    1. You are right, they do add some drama!