HOW TO APPEAR POWERFUL AND STRONG

The color red is associated with things like love, passion, and fire. Red is also associated with blood, which gives us life, or it can mean stop and danger. Colors play a huge role in the way we are seen, and in the way others see us. If you wear red, you might be considered powerful, strong, vibrant, and in control. Have you ever noticed how many men wear red ties when they want to appear strong and in charge?
Red draws attention, and for that reason, I used to never wear that color. I wasn’t concerned if it was matching my coloring; I didn’t want anyone looking my way. The first time that I wore red, I was sure that everyone I came in contact with was looking at me. Come to find out; people are more worried about how “they” look, than how “you” look. If you don’t believe me, then try that experiment the next time you go to the grocery store, and let me know your results. I am so happy that I have now found a love for red, or I would have missed out on this wonderful waterfall vest.

The jewelry I have on today is simple because the blouse is so fancy. I chose to let the blouse by the star, and I didn’t wear jewelry to distract from the top. I only added a simple bar necklace and the large gold Dallin hoop earrings. I never want to have too many items competing for attention in one outfit.
Who doesn’t own a pair of black pants? I love color, but I still own several different styles of black pants. They are a staple in every wardrobe, and they are a classic clothing item. This photo was taken a month ago, so I am not positive which pair of black pants that I am wearing (#bloggerproblems), but any pair would work for this look.

I chose a skinny leg, or a cigarette style pant so that I could wear my favorite black pumps from Coach. I think that I come up with excuses to wear these shoes. Lol!
You gurls are soo sweet to me. I truly feel loved and appreciated, and that is a feeling that everyone wants. I didn’t move my personal stories because anyone said anything, I thought that if you found my picture on Pinterest and then clicked to my blog, you might be confused on who Joe was, and why am I talking about him. Lol!!! A lot of you have probably already thought that more than once. Haha! He came home the other day, and he said, “so, you told everyone about the cats peeing on my clothes.” I just cracked up because you would think that he would know me by now. OF COURSE, I told everyone that story…duh! He acts all grouchy and grumpy, (he is really good at that), but he is really very soft and cuddly inside. I can’t wait until someone in town (yes, I am talking about you, Debbie) tells him that I put that on the blog. Hahahahaha!! There goes his bad-boy reputation down the drain.
Some of you have messaged me asking what R+F products you need. It occurred to me that it might be helpful if I had an “event” on Facebook to show you the products and tell what each one does. This would be an information-only type of event, and I would love for you to join me on Tuesday night (tonight) at 8:00 PM ET. Here is the link where you can request to join the event.

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