DISTRESSED JEANS AFTER 50?
A good pair of jeans are a statement piece in nearly everyone’s wardrobe. And chances are, you have a favorite pair or two that show visible signs of life like a few rips and tears. Maybe they were purchased with some frays, or they developed over time because you’ve worn them so much. But, does there come a time when we must retire our distressed jeans simply because of our age? Or, do you like distressed jeans after 50?
The photo of me above is my most pinned outfit on Pinterest, and it was from 2015. I’ve never been one to let my age stop me from dressing how I want, and you shouldn’t either. Distressed jeans can be a fashionable choice at any age, and you shouldn’t let them intimidate you. They add personality and make a look more relaxed and casual.
Ripped jeans are trendy, and we don’t have to miss out because of our age. Distressed jeans give an edgy vibe and can be stylish for those over 50 without looking like we are trying too hard. There are many easy and fashionable ways to pair ripped jeans with tops and accessories we already have that can be styled all year round.
What to look for
When shopping for ripped jeans, there are several factors to look for. First and foremost, it is crucial that the fit and length are right for you. Most brands carry a pair or two of distressed jeans, so try a pair from a brand you already know how they fit.
Regardless of how much we love a pair of jeans, the fit of the jeans can break or break an outfit. If you’re anything like me, I prefer jeans that are either bootcut or relaxed fit. When you’re shopping for a new pair of distressed jeans, don’t forget to choose a style that suits you and is something you can see yourself wearing.
The material is also important, so opt for comfortable yet flattering ones. Choose a good quality material but also has some “stretch” to it.
Less is more
How much distress should our jeans have? It is always better to go with the old adage “less is more.” Here are some examples of distressed jeans. Some have huge holes, some have only slight tears, and some only have distressing at the hem.
When looking for your perfect distressed jeans after 50, choose ones with fewer distress marks. Keeping frays at a minimum keeps us from looking as if we are TRYING to look like our younger generations (and that’s supposed to be effortless, right?) Rips from top to bottom are too overwhelming and just look sloppy. Also, choose those that are distressed primarily in the front, not back. Frays in the front give a more conservative yet carefree vibe. Rips, tears, blemishes, and frays should be appropriately placed so that they are flattering to your figure yet still stylish.
Subtle rips around the knees are a popular choice and are reserved enough to be paired with nearly any blouse or outfit. The rips should be symmetrical and proportionate and not too heavy on one pant leg or the other. Tears and distress marks placed correctly in the jean can add a bit of detail to modernize a classic style or look.
How to pair
There are many ways to wear your distressed jeans after 50, with plenty of ways to style to make you look and feel great.
- Paired with a cute loose-fitting blouse
- Blazer and cute pair of comfortable sneakers. Adding a blazer can transform your distressed style into the perfect work ensemble that adds a touch of flair to your otherwise classic and polished look.
- Pair a classic blouse or top with subtly distressed denim. This creates a classic yet stylish look that is very trendy and perfect for the office.
- A more structured top paired with low-cut booties.
- A simple t-shirt can leave an outfit feeling youthful without being overdone. This is one of my favorite looks!
When and where
Denim jeans are one of the most versatile pieces of clothing in our closets. They are durable, long-lasting, and go great with many different styles all year round. Do these same rules apply to distressed denim after 50? When is it appropriate to wear distressed denim without looking disheveled?
One thing to consider when choosing your outfit for the day is making sure that it is work-appropriate for the office. Depending on your job, some companies may have policies against ripped or frayed clothing. Be mindful of this if it applies, but don’t be afraid to express your style on days when you aren’t at work.
Distressed denim always leaves me feeling a little more relaxed and casual, yet fun and edgy. It’s great for casual lunch outings, running errands, or trips around town. Pretty much anywhere you would otherwise consider a denim option is acceptable.
Retailers to consider
Many retailers that we already love carry distressed styles that are trendy and flattering for your body type. They come in a variety of different price points, so you have all the flexibility to find the perfect pair for you.
So, should you hang up those distressed jeans forever? Heck, no! A good pair of jeans is an investment in your personal style, and distressed denim can be just as versatile and trendy no matter your age. Remember, there is no “one size fits all” approach to your personal fashion, so don’t be afraid to choose what speaks to you!
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Love the look of distressed jeans…..you look great in them! BTW where did you purchase that rhuana??? It is fabulous!
Thanks, Ellen. The Ruana was from Walmart. Here is the post that I did about it. https://50isnotold.com/how-to-look-stylish/
I’m 63 and I make sure I have a few trendy things in my wardrobe, like skinny jeans, distressed jeans, cropped pants, animal print, camo, etc. I don’t go overboard, but the “mom mall walker” jeans are not for me. There’s nothing wrong with anyone wearing whatever they’re comfortable in. I enjoy fun, feminine, and a smidgen of funky clothes, but certainly draw the line at anything revealing or crazy youthful. Your blog is a great mixture of age appropriate, contemporary fashion!😁
Holly, I am only 2 years younger than you. I’m so glad that you are enjoying the blog and are willing to try new fashion trends.
I love this look, but my husband isn’t so sure. He found it really funny that I ironed a patch on the inside of a hole at the knee because my toe kept getting caught in it. As he said, I bought new distressed jeans only to repair them. I do agree with you that less is more and for me less looks better. I doubt I would have ever bought distressed jeans if I hadn’t seen you model them on your blog, so thank you! Also, thank for the enjoyable daily read.
Loretta, most husbands don’t understand us when it comes to fashion. Lol!
I’m like a few others as in not a fan of distressed jeans. However, you make them look good! I saved a few of your photos.
Patricia, everyone doesn’t like the same thing, that is what makes fashion so personal.
You look so cute in your distressed jeans and sneakers. I haven’t been able to wrap my head around buying wholly or ripped jeans. I do have some with light distressing on the thigh area and those will work for me. I appreciate your help in understanding the mindset behind the jeans of today.
Distressing of any kind counts. It doesn’t have to be huge holes, and I think that trend is slowly going away.
You look great in these outfits, I especially love the first one and the one with the blazer, very classy!
Thanks!
You look pretty good in your distressed jeans. And I do like an edgy look. For me, I don’t know. I’ll think about it. I guess its the principle. I love a well-fitted, nice pair of jeans. Why would anyone want holes in their pants?
Sincerely,
C.Curtis
Christine, I understand what you are saying, but distressing is a “unique detail” on the jeans. It is just like having embroidery, studs, leather trim, or the cut of the legs. It is a fashion statement with a pair of jeans.
I accidentally bought a pair of distressed from Chicos and actually love them! They have denim behind the ripped patches so it’s a little more subtle. They are those girlfriend jeans in light denim.
Enjoy your edgy look!!
I love it A.J. As Bob Ross used to say, “We don’t make mistakes. We just have happy accidents.”
Hi Tania. I’m not a fan of distressed jeans and the closest I have is a pair of light wash denim with a frayed hem, but no holes. That being said, you look great in them. It’s a matter of what we feel comfortable wearing.
Janice, a frayed hem is still distressing. So, you are still rocking the trend! Good for you!
Love distressed jeans!
I love them too, Joan. But, I am noticing that I am choosing the ones with less holes lately.