HANDLING THE PRESSURES OF THE WORLD
Pressures start early in life, even when we are still babies. Pressures to eat the right foods, pressures to learn to walk, and pressures to learn our ABC’s. These all seem easy now, but when we were going through them, they weren’t so easy. Pressures continued into our school years. Some learned the school lessons easily and others struggled. Some might have excelled in athletics while others only felt the pressure to try harder. Fitting into the right crowd and being accepted by our peers was a constant pressure later on in our high school years. Surely things would get better after we finally graduated.
Of course, things did not get easier, in fact, they probably got even harder. When I was in high school it was pretty much expected that you would get married and have children right away. The pressure to find a spouse was real and I am sure you have all been asked the questions, “When are you getting married?” or “When are you going to start a family?”
Raising a family isn’t any pressure at all. Lol! Trying to raise little adults that will go out into the world and be a blessing to society instead of a curse is easy. It is a piece of cake trying to keeping them away from the evils of the world all while juggling supper, meetings, activities, and all the wifely duties. There are never any pressures on keeping a marriage together, our husbands never feel neglected or abandoned, right?
And even after the children are raised we will still feel pressures about our health or the health of our parents. I have some friends who have recently lost their husbands and a child. I can not imagine the pressures that they are feeling at this time.
James 1:3-13
3 for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. 4 And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.
5 If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him. 6 But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind.7 For that person must not suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord;8 he is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways.
9 Let the lowly brother boast in his exaltation, 10 and the rich in his humiliation, because like a flower of the grass[a] he will pass away. 11 For the sun rises with its scorching heat and withers the grass; its flower falls, and its beauty perishes. So also will the rich man fade away in the midst of his pursuits.
12 Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love him. 13 Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am being tempted by God,” for God cannot be tempted with evil, and he himself tempts no one.
While it does not look like any of us will ever escape the pressures of this life we do have the words in Jeremiah to give us so relief.
Jeremiah 29:11
11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
Have a Blessed Sunday!
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“Pressures start early in life” … wow, that made me stop in my tracks. I’m nearly 60 and it saddens me to think of children not enjoying childhood because of all the pressures put upon them. I had a great childhood and for that I am SO grateful. Your posts are always so thoughtful and give me something to contemplate. Thank you, Tania!
You’ve articulated so well how I feel, too! I had thought life would get easier as we got older. Sharing with family….
I shared your post on my FB page, Tania.
Thank you Tania,for sharing your Sunday post with us very uplifting.
I love the way God uses you Tania, to get His timely/on time- ever faithful messages across. Pressure is always around in the world we live. Thank you for posting the Bible passages today, so timely in my life and I am sure many others. You are a blessing!
I love your sunday posted i share them w my Best friend every week . Keep up the good work !
I shared your Sunday post on Facebook. You write so well and your love and faith in Jesus is most evident. Have you ever thought of writing a book?
We are studying James on Wednesday night and now this pops up. God is definitely wanting me to hear this message!
Beautiful, Tania. Thank you & have a blessed Sunday w/your family!
It was a great reflection and I am sharing it with my daughter. I love giving her positive words and messages. This was particularly meaningful with the passage from James. When we go through the hardest struggles in life, our faith and relationship with God grows the most. However, it is even more important to stand steadfast in our faith when things are smooth. We need to remember Him equally as much then. Thanks for sharing these Sunday thoughts.